Avoiding Arguments

I personally hate arguments, not mentioning fights, I despite those that argue for no bloody reason, i dislike and always feel turned off by those who wants to start an arguments for no concrete reason.

Time flies, people change, now i do not feel the way i felt last time, i still despite these people, but i do not hate them anymore. There must be a reason for them to get angry or to get into an argument, everyone is different, even tho we are the same, with a heart, 2 eyes, a mouth and da da da.. but the way we were brought up, the way we were taught, plays a very important role in our life.

These days, i try to avoid as much arguments as i can, i do not want to be involve in it, neither start it. i start to accommodate to other people when something is not right... ( which i think its bad ). But i will feel better as there is no quarreling and i am able to please someone.

However, as i was writing this, i nearly got into an argument again, but i choose to tone down my voice and listen to the other party, guess what? it turns out to be just a slight miscommunication and there is even a small surprise beneath it! haha.. speaking about luck... this is all the small little luck i really need...

Arguments, Cant live with it, can live without it ;)

p/s - i think i really do talk a lot of meaningless and nonsenseness of Engulish ....